Advocate of the Incarcerated

I believe in second chances, I believe that incarcerated individuals are people. I know that my believes aren’t radical because I am not asking for anything that hasn’t been proven. It is time to wake up and take action.

Before my husband, I didn’t even imagine how unfair the criminal and prison system really is. It is non-sense.

This blog is more than a blog of a woman married to a man serving life, this blog is about my fight to bring real justice and redemption to the disenfranchised.

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Things that you didn’t know about being a prison girlfriend

by wifeofalifer | Aug 26, 2020 | Uncategorized

If you are reading this post because you are curious about what it is like being a prison girlfriend. Many strong women across the country decide to start and keep these "taboo" relationships.As the wife of a man serving life in prison, I can tell you that I have been...

How Trelise Baker is helping Formerly Incarcerated Women

by wifeofalifer | Aug 19, 2020 | Interviews

A non-profit focused on formerly incarcerated women of New Orleans, with a vision to reduce recidivism rates, to break the cycle. This program walks them through the process and moves them closer to reintegrating into society.

How to win free stuff

by wifeofalifer | Aug 12, 2020 | Other

You heard it right, win free stuff to one lucky winner every Saturday, come and join us live on Youtube to win cash and prizes. https://www.youtube.com/c/DesignedCo

Tired of COVID 19? Imagine One day in Prison, then multiple it for 7000

by wifeofalifer | Aug 5, 2020 | Life

Imagine even just one day in there, then multiply for a least 7 thousand more?
As that’s not even 20 years.
So my question is what I expect everybody to take out of this pandemic is when is enough, enough?, one day in prison, I’m sure that it would be very traumatic for me. Just one day, 20 years in more than 7,000 days. When the Incarceration objective switched from rehabilitation to punishment?.

Prison art Initiative | Kytesketch

by wifeofalifer | Jul 30, 2020 | Interviews

The Episode Summary Today I have a great guest who started a prison art initiative back in 2012. Inspired by his brother, who is currently serving a life sentence. Kevin recalls it was his brother, who asked why he never wrote him a letter while serving a previous...